I’ve been called high maintenance by men before, but they are not talking about money. I’ve been called demanding by men before, but it’s not because of things ‘I want’.
The fact, my fact, is that what I need from a lover is and always has been a bond – cerebral and emotional – which takes work to maintain.
Some men have no idea what I’m talking about and have been incapable of making that bond with me at all and others are excited by someone wanting to know them so completely initially, but have tired over the galloping straights, dotted with hurdles, foaming at the mouth as they went.
I talk like I’m a female Casanova and I’m not, but you know, he was actually a fascinating man. One who truly loved women, he wrote feminist pamphlets anonymously and risked jail regularly for his ‘radical’ views. He got his reputation as a philanderer in some kind of effort to slur his good name with the womenfolk (although I’m sure he loved dipping his wick once in a while too). I’m reading his book occasionally, when the mood strikes me.
Anyway, I digress… this precious bond created with a lover is one that can only be sustained with real time, trust, sharing of thoughts and conversation. I’m really not the kind of woman to be satisfied with ‘Did you get any more of that there Fray Bentos from t’shop?’ as a conversational gambit.
We’re all alone in this world, we come into it alone and we leave it alone and what I want is for those brief burning touches of mind meeting mind, soul touching soul to be achieved as much as possible. I think that is what makes us human and capable of love. I think it’s more intimate than sex.
What to wear in Second Life today?
Visit | Beautiful 4 Seasons
Hair | [RunAway] Joy Blondes HUD (The Chapter Four, Aug 4 – 24)
Outfit | Blueberry Anna Skirt & Top Mattecute [Mait/2Sli/3Bell] (Blueberry Mainstore : Blueberry Marketplace)
What an adorable munchkin that Blueberry is, she’s gone and made her new Anna Skirt and Top in two types of texture to please all kinds of ladies – we have here a shiny bottom and a matte top to show you. I love the laced back of the top and the fit of both items. I love the shine on my bum as I walk 🙂 Nip over to the mainstore and pick up a pack today, you will definitely not regret it come disco night when the boys are queueing out the door to get close to you. (~Please excuse the particularly 80s feel to that statement~).
[RunAway]’s Joy Hair is a plaited updo available right now from The Chapter Four. You can get it in various colour packs and since I did these pics I’ve seen others where the colours are contrasting and that looks pretty good.
Here’s a well lit, no shit shot which you can click to see huge.
And finally, here’s my ‘jigging for the rigging’ video. I’m pretty sure it’s going to all stay in but I love getting down to this song 🙂