I was talking to my friend in SL last night about staying out of other people’s crap in Second Life in particular and we agreed it was good to do so where possible, as it can infringe on your wellbeing in RL too. I said to her that if someone comes to me with something I consider none of my business (and potentially troublesome) I tend to go with ‘I’m not fussed about that’ and move on. She (for she is immensely bright) said that this was sane disinterest and, flattered as I was, I had to correct her, because it’s not actual disinterest, it’s feigned disinterest and I employ it to keep myself sane 🙂
That’s not to say that I’m not interested in the problems and troubles of my friends, rather more I dislike it when people stir things up and get involved in other people’s problems only to make them more problematic.
What I aim for in an evening in Second Life is some great music (never an issue), some good company and sometimes, invigorating conversation. Preferably with other grown ups 😀
My advice to you in Second Life is to keep your own counsel on personal matters wherever possible, to avoid participation in mass bitch sessions and to definitely, always, keep your nose out from where it doesn’t belong. It’s only going to get sore.
Let’s share some joy instead!
What to wear in Second Life today?
Visit | Take Heart Sim
Pose | IE – Hip Hop 6 (Image Essentials Mainstore)
Jewellery | Mandala Princess Dog Tag and Ring Onyx [Half Price Sale] (Mandala Mainstore)
Hair/Hat | MINA Nell Anniversary Gift (Hairology, 10-30 Nov)
Boots | Blueberry Craven – get redelivered! [Mait/Sli/Bell] (Blueberry Mainstore : Blueberry Marketplace)
Tights | Nanika Arlie Tights [Mait/Bell/Omeg/Sli] (The Liaison Collaborative, 7-30 Nov)
Dress/Scarf | Blueberry Cory Sweater Dress & Scarf [Mait/2Sli/3Bell] (Collabor88, til 6 Dec)
Let us begin by looking at Blueberry’s new Cory Sweater dress and Scarf, which is at Collabor88 right now. Well, it’s a great fit – it was produced because customers had been asking Blueb for an off the shoulder dress, and she has obliged. It comes with 16 colours in the fatpack for the dress and the scarf can be worn separately and is rigged to the relevant body too. It comes with in-built optional knickers, also with colour change options. I shall wear it a great deal!
In other news, Blueberry has done a re-issue of her ‘Craven’ boots, with more dark shades included. If you already bought these, grab a redelivery from the mainstore. If you haven’t, well… there’s more colours than you could shake a stick at, so you should.
The cute MINA hair and hat is one of the Hairology gifts! It comes with a HUD offering 5 colours for the hair and 5 colours for the hat.
Here’s a couple more pics including my ‘well lit, no shit’ shot – click to see them larger.
Finally, here is my jigging for the rigging. As a change, (and because my computer was behaving relatively well) I decided to do the video at the Take Heart sim where I did my main photo for this blog. It’s so pretty!