Lemme tell you something about love. Saying ‘love’ is like saying ‘food’, it’s a rough grouping of tons of emotions that mean each and every time you love someone, it feels different. Each person loves you differently too. When I think back along my (youthfully short and, of course, entirely positive) love life, each person I loved was so different from the last and so, of course, how they made me feel was entirely different.
Then there’s the love you have for your family. I think the way you love your mother is interesting. I love my Mum so very much and I like her a lot too, but I think, your Mum is probably – often – the person who can drive you the most nuts, but you’d absolutely kill for them.
Of course, I don’t have children, maybe they take that crown when they come along 😀
My Mum gave me two pieces of advice about love when I was very young, in order to help me sort out my feelings on love. The first was that love is like elastic, you can’t have too much love. Loving one person doesn’t mean another has to get less love (of course, this doesn’t directly apply to romantic relationships, loving other people usually means you’re loving the original one less) and the second gem of wisdom was to love a man who loves his mother.
Of course, rejecting a man who doesn’t love his mother, for good reason perhaps, would be harsh, but I think she was saying that if a man is comfortable with his mother, he’ll be more comfortable in his relationships with women.
I have no idea what that says about my less-than-ideal relationship with my Dad. I probably have a huge ‘No Entry’ sign on my forehead, visible only to men. Or worse! Tell me your views?
What to wear in Second Life today?
Visit | [RAINS] Drift
Pose | La Baguette – Kazi G. Sit 4 modified (La Baguette Mainstore)
Hair | tram. G0210 HUD C (Uber, til 23 Mar)
Top | (NO) Basic Tee – Love is Dope [Fitmesh] (Collabor88, til 6 Apr)
Boots | !Aphorism! Sabrina Ankle Boot (Aphorism Mainstore : Aphorism Marketplace)
Jeans | !Aphorism! Jana Jeans [Mait/2Sli/2Bell] (Kustom9, til 10 Apr)
Aphorism bought out some fabby new jeans with a leather belt and detailed buckle. They’re for sale at Kustom9 in Maitreya, Slink Physique and Hourglass and Belleza Isis and Freya sizes and in some lovely denim and other shades. The belt comes with its own HUD to change leather, metal and stone colours… priddy.
I’m going to be frank with you about the Nylon Outfitters tshirt I got from Collabor88 this round. It’s fitmesh with some versions of fitmesh best aimed at the mesh body it states (I’m wearing the one for Maitreya with my Maitreya body) and it’s not a great fit at all. I alpha’d what I can out, but there are some quite serious issues around the shoulders and upper arms. BUT! Before you definitely for sure don’t want it, let us not forget that it is designed by Nylon Pinkney whose art fills my heart with joy. I want to categorically state that I would go through much worse fit/alpha issues in order to feel the pride and happiness of wearing one of her designs. I am a huge fan. Fan girl faint. End.
Here’s some more pics including a well lit no shit…
And finally, here is the jigging for the rigging…